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What you try to control, controls you, just let go.

 What is paradox of control? How does it works? The paradox of control boils down to the notion that when we try to control the uncontrollable things, we basically give up our behaviour and happiness to do something unreliable and out of control. We let this influence our mental state because our desire for control often leads us to anxiety, stress and frustration and feel us uncomfortable when we are unable to control the outcomes. So our desire of control become the source of pain and suffering. Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.  "We suffer more often in imagination than in reality"- Seneca

I Believe in A Kind of Love

 I believe in the kind of love that exists in various  forms I believe in a love that is real and universal I believe in a kind of love that gives people hope A kind of love which which helps to forget all the sorrows A kind of love which levitates you  Kind of love force you to ignore the chaos of the surrounding  I believe in a kind of love for which you care about present, the moment A kind of love when beloved wait for lover when he went to war A kind of love when she accept him after he loosing his arms in war A kind of love which is acceptable, which is flexible, exists in real  I believe in the kind of love when single mother brings her baby  Without the fear of this judgemental and cruel world A kind of love between any two things A kind of love between human and stars  I believe in the kind of love that is aimless but full with passion A kind of love that fuels everyone and uplifts from difficulties A kind of aimless love that brings  pos...

A LETTER TO HER

  Sometimes I realize that I like you too much. Sometimes I think how lucky I would be if you could be mine. Sometimes I just take deep breath thinking that you exist.   Sometimes I just want to tell her that you are beautiful, Probably you are tired of this, listening this thousand times Lots of barrier between us but still I like you too much. You are my angle, my darling but you probably unaware of this.   You are the morning of October, scented and cold You are the river which craving through my heart You can swipe away pain, you’re tidy and deep Your hair, your eyes having more current than any falls You are not any random thought which doesn’t have base Rather I write random poems to stretch you, your beauty This is how I express my love for you.  

A LETTER WITH QUESTIONS

  ‘The creation of life ' Sometimes I think that universe is nothing but an illusion I have doubts whether the people around me are real or not? Or everything is just dreams or simulation? Do you feel the same way I think? Do you think that our life is one directional? Or this direction of life is an infinite loop?   Why people died in a painful way? Why people born if there is an end? Why there is so much chaos between the birth and death? Everything in this universe which has a beginning must has an end, Then why things are being created?   What the purpose creating such a complex structure? Do you think that we are unique and alone? Why suffering after being the God’s finest creation? Why we love each other or feel a connection? Then why we hate each other?   ‘The death' We grow up, grow further, reached on the ultimate state of being chaotic That is the adulthood Then we downgrade, everything reversed while we getting old...

Fall in love

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Fall in Love is just like free fall ; if you start falling, then you feel weightlessness, if you can able to have soft landing then it's amazing otherwise it hurts. You can't stop yourself in the middle of this fall ; if you fall for someone then you fall till any extremities. In this duration attractions towards that person increases with time . During this time your total energy remain same but transformation occurred.  All it ends with either heartbroken or happiness but the journey gives you a great experience and create beautiful memories .

'Sex', a taboo

Every students have many beautiful memories with teachers' day. No need to say the impact of teachers to shape the students. In this perspective I am going to share my view.  Six years ago, when I read in class VII, most of my friends are busy to impress girls, but some of us keep ourselves away from any relationship, but later failed obviously, however our teachers always advice us not to get into any relationship ( according to them it's nothing but waste of time). Still now I can't find what is wrong with love and relationships, why our teachers think so. The attractions is natural. Let me clear that no teacher tought us about sex education, reason is that they feel uncomfortable to discuss about 'sex', a taboo. Most of the parents never think about the necessity to teach their son or daughter about sex education, because they create such atmosphere from early age, so it's impossible to change their their stereotypes mindset at that exact moment, and in schoo...
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He said: "One day you'll leave this world behind , So live a life you will remember"