'Sex', a taboo

Every students have many beautiful memories with teachers' day. No need to say the impact of teachers to shape the students. In this perspective I am going to share my view. 

Six years ago, when I read in class VII, most of my friends are busy to impress girls, but some of us keep ourselves away from any relationship, but later failed obviously, however our teachers always advice us not to get into any relationship ( according to them it's nothing but waste of time).

Still now I can't find what is wrong with love and relationships, why our teachers think so. The attractions is natural. Let me clear that no teacher tought us about sex education, reason is that they feel uncomfortable to discuss about 'sex', a taboo. Most of the parents never think about the necessity to teach their son or daughter about sex education, because they create such atmosphere from early age, so it's impossible to change their their stereotypes mindset at that exact moment, and in school you are not allowed to talk. I remember that there are some chapter about adolescence in life science which cover only the topics why you have acene in teenage, attraction with opposite sex, why male have moustache and beard, why female skin is soft etcetera but sex education and teach about adolescence is completely different. 

Nobody teach me about sex education in my early teenage, I read a lots of books , articles on internet , a lots of topics in Wikipedia. Believe me it's very beneficial. I know everything as I can on that stage about human sexuality, in scientific way.

Those junior who think now that 'sex education' is only about sex then they are wrong.

However, at those moments of life I experienced many aspects of human charecter, many of my friends share their problems about their mental stage.

At that stage I saw how some friends became alcoholic, having destructive mind, how some harmed themselves just for breakup, how someone became porn addicted, how someone loose their mental stability for excessive masterbation. I am not saying that everyone take part in no fap , no PMO, but I am saying they want to get rid of the burden of the guilty mind which they carry through out their whole teenage. They should explore in their own way, take their own decisions. I saw how those internal conflict destroy their career , their personality, destroy the relationship with their family, everything. 

The stage when a students need support from their teachers, their seniors to listen to them, give them advice, but no one come forward and make it a social taboo.

If we can teach our students, our juniors, younger brothers or sisters, become a good listener , try to solve their problems ,then many teen-ager can able to come out from that situations.